JOMO Questions

JOMO:100 Conversation Starters

1. What’s something you spend a surprising amount of time thinking about?
2. How do you hope people in your life see you?
3. What’s something you often wish people knew or understood about you?
4. When you imagine your happy place, where is it, and what are you doing there?
5. What is something you dislike that most people like?
6. What food or song always brings back good memories?
7. What is a habit or routine that you would like to get into?
8. If you could ask your future self a question, what would it be?
9. What’s something you’ve worked hard on recently?
10. What’s something you want and are also a bit afraid of?
11. When did you last feel deeply happy?
12. Who in your life has had a bigger impact on you than they probably know?
13. How good of a listener do you consider yourself to be?
14. Do you consider yourself more introverted or extroverted?
15. What’s something that once mattered to you in the past but no longer does today?
16. Do you prefer novelty or sticking with a routine?
17. What’s something you will NEVER do again?
18. If you could pick up a skill instantly, what would it be?
19. If you could do anything in the next year, what would it be?
20. When you were younger, what did you want to be when you grew up?
21. What was the first thing you remember buying with your own money?
22. Do you have any comfort foods? What are they?
23. What activity do you enjoy so much that it makes you lose track of time?
24. Who in your life inspires you to be better?
25. What do the first 30 mins of your typical day look like?
26. What activity helps you feel relaxed?
27. What would be your dream job if money didn’t matter?
28. Which season best fits your personality?
29. How patient do you consider yourself to be?
30. Do you have a favorite quote? What is it?
31. What’s the last random thing that made you smile?
32. Who is the hardest worker you know?
33. What’s one thing you’re really looking forward to?
34. What’s something you think you’ll always value?
35. Would you rather hear the good news or the bad news first?
36. Would you rather save money or save time?
37. Would you rather watch a movie at home or at the movie theater?
38. If you could time travel, what year would you visit, and what would you do?
39. Is having pets important to you? Why or why not?
40. If you could bring one thing back from your past, what would it be?
41. Do you consider yourself lucky?
42. Do you believe in fate or destiny? Why or why not?
43. What is something you think everyone should do at least once in their lives?
44. What would your perfect meal be?
45. What are you most looking forward to in the next 10 years?
46. What are the top three things on your bucket list?
47. Is religion or spirituality important to you?
48. What is your favorite holiday or time of year?
49. What is a positive piece of news you recently heard?
50. What public service do you appreciate most?
51. What have you used so much that it has worn down or broken?
52. What’s the nicest thing anyone ever said to you?
53. What do you do when you are in the mood for adventure?
54. What’s your favorite part of the day?
55. Which song makes you happy no matter what?
56. Which of the five senses are you most grateful for?
57. What is something you learned this week?
58. What is something you have now that you didn’t have a year ago?
59. When did someone go out of their way to help you?
60. What is your favorite way to exercise or move your body?
61. What’s your favorite thing to do outdoors?
62. What’s one thing people frequently get wrong about you?
63. Does peer pressure ever get to you?
64. Do you generally believe people can change?
65. What does friendship mean to you?
66. What motivates you to be brave?
67. Can regrets ever be helpful? Why or why not?
68. Have you ever failed at something? What happened?
69. If you could make one serious change in the world, what would it be?
70. What mainstream opinion or belief do you disagree with?
71. Do you ever struggle with self-sabotage?
72. What helps you when you’re in an emotional funk?
73. How do you cope with rejection?
74. What’s something that drains your energy?
75. What feels toxic in your life right now?
76. Do you ever struggle with perfectionism?
77. What’s something you’re actively trying to improve right now?
78. Do you think quitting is ever a good option? Why or why not?
79. What do you tell yourself when you feel discouraged?
80. What obstacle often gets in the way of your goals?
81. Have you ever dramatically changed your mind about something? What was it?
82. What chance encounter changed your life forever?
83. Is there anyone in your life that you don’t thank enough?
84. What was the worst haircut or hairstyle you’ve ever had?
85. If you could compete in the Olympics, which sport would you choose?
86. What makes you laugh?
87. If you could buy your dream house, what is one weird room or feature you would like to have?
88. Who are the three people you want on your team in a zombie apocalypse? Why?
89. Would you rather have a rewind or pause button in your life?
90. Would you rather be too hot or too cold?
91. Would you rather be slightly late or super early?
92. Would you rather be the funniest or smartest person in the room?
93. Would you rather be rich or famous?
94. Would you rather live in an apartment in the city or a mansion in the country?
95. If you could be successful at any one thing, what would it be?
96. If you had to spend a million dollars today, how would you do it?
97. What fictional character seems like they’d make a great friend? Why?
98. If you had to invent a holiday, what would it be for?
99. What’s a current trend that you can’t stand?
100. If you could have a superpower for a day, what would you choose?